You ever have those moments when you suddenly feel that your life is finally coming together? When your day is filled with accomplishments! When the list you made is done! Those things you wanted to happen as you thought of them. Sometimes a wistful thought and other times the hardcore affirmations to move it forward.
This very moment has become possible. Let"s say I am feeling that this is what is need to be heard for now.
On the Eve of the Holidays where families, friends and loves come together and celebrate the lives you have lived together. Also, the remembering of the past years and maybe that some of us are not in this physical place alongside of us. Maybe you had those straight from Miracle of 42nd street moments when it was all magical.
The truth is for others the opposite of what I just shared. The sadness and the loneliness try and creep their way into the day to day thoughts. As you hear or listen to people talking about their huge families coming together to give thanks when in reality somewhere along the line "thanks" fell off the moment.
From my own experiences of disaster Thanksgivings. And then the Christmas was not what I wanted cause it was not pretty at all. The shouting matches at the table with all of the food and trimmings that for some reason costs more than you can remember. As I tried to overlook the one sided views that were the only way we were to think because we were told to think that way.
For me I reached a point where I just turned off the volume and started to sing in my head to drown out the noise. The plus side when you just start singing random music selections that make you happy, the outside world looked at me like I had lost it.
Well I did lose it!
I wanted to never have those horrible times appear in front of me again. I needed and wanted happy campers. If they were nowhere to be found. I could escape in a movie or a book. Books are where you imaginations really have no ends as the author describes things, for some reason depending on where your head is at appear very differently than what the author wanted.
But then again, it is you own world.
So for me to repair my holidays, I made them and created them my way. I was no longer daunted by the bad times. Instead I started to collect the magic moments and focus on them. The collection of moments grew every year. How I celebrate the holidays is very different from the rest. I found that just being myself and holding on to who I am was all I needed. I had found a friend!
I had found myself!
At a moments notice being able to change the script to how I wanted it to happen. How I dealt with the less than happy times were really up to me.
I have never wanted to be the complainer, whiner or party pooper.
Laughter became my cure.
Music became my theme. How I celebrate is up to me.
You have to make the decision to be happy. You have to make the decision to own your life wherever it has landed. What I found is this was the starting point for me. I could make it better step by step or not. I gave up being depressed.
I found my way out.
It is inside of all us.
Words have power. The more you change them to better things for you, the more the mind and the powers around us hear that and it becomes possible.
I have so many times over and over again just announced I wanted to do this and wanted to do that. I have always stated the universe has my back and indeed it does. I have always stated the universe would not have done all this for me if I were not ready to handle it all.
I have spent many moments in different ways saying over and over again the same things. The truth is we have to always remind ourselves of the possible. What happens is sometimes the background noise tries to drown out all that we accomplished.
All the journey to get there.
The people we have met along the way. The choice is what we have.
The choice is ours alone.
You can choose the magic or not. If you want to get things moving in your direction. First you have to want it. Want it every day.
You become obsessed with the want and repeat it so often. Sometimes we forget the things that have really worked out for us because the shade of the the negatives try to block out the light we all have inside. The very spark that entered the vessel we are in that the present come to life and take your first breath.
There is no such thing is what a perfect statement is for us to receive the very thing we truly want.
The perfection lies in the belief!
In the hope!
In the possible.
Recently I woke up and went straight to the motivational videos that remind me of what I have already learnt.
Own your power!
You are uniquely and wonderfully made.
You have extraordinary power. Never let anyone make you doubt that which is uniquely you!
Powerful is it not! That is the mindset I carry. I have used this to replace the haters that appear to me.
You see I represent a threat to them.
I represent a change of heart. Most of the others just want to hang on to the whining and complaining. I represent change when most people do not want things to change.
For me change is learning. It is power in itself.
So many of always want the last time we had a great and wonderful time with someone. The incredible moments we discovered other places that we loved. What I find is that is limiting as those moments in the past have come and gone, What I want is something even better. You know how you feel when you get honest and real compliments. The ones where someone noticed the slight change you made to your appearance or living situation.
These all happened because you wanted the difference. The possible becomes you being possible.
If we never want something to happen because we want it. We can become fearful of the what if's might happen. What we need to look for is the what if it does. The journey to get there and the people along the way to make it happen.
The mindset of wanting to the possible. The only thing we can not control ever is when we have to leave this vessel so we can return to another one somewhere. But the light never goes away. The more you see your light, your power then your holidays can be what you want and not what someone told you were going to have. Your magic is big as you let it be and the walls begin to fall away.
Each step is the next one. Change happens when you change your words about yourself. It is our thing we can control .
It is the impossible becoming possible.
I am in hope each and every one of you can find your own magic. Your own light. Your own power. So what if you have to remind yourself over and over again because one day you will become the magic for someone else.
IT IS POSSIBLE!!
Thank you for reading my blog and sharing in my Possibilities. Happy Holidays! Be just a bit nicer to someone that does not know how. If they still do not get it, then move on. You can walk away knowing you tried. The rest in on them. You have the power.
Let's dance out of here!!
Rand Angel for LIve LIve Live!!!
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