There is no shame in having a personal agenda. It's all about you.
Its all about me.
It's all about us.
It is really amazing to do something from the heart for someone. To lead a person to better a thought. But when you peel the mask away,
It's because of a personal agenda. It's not about being cynical or calling someone out.
When you do something for someone, when you care for someone and you make it special, that feeling you get inside. That warm and fuzzy as we call it. It makes you feel good or to be blunt. You allow the feeling you get to make you feel great.
There is no shame in that! Why would you not want to feel good? That last moment, that last interaction.
You walk away with the feel good....
The feel good moment of who you are as a person...
At the end of the day. Its all about you. How you feel as a person. How you live and love as a person. Let that marinate for a minute.... Its time for a song.
Live your goals, your dreams. Each step perfectly timed to lead you to where you should or want to be, This is not about being conceited, but about owning yourself. Everything we touch will always bring us back to us. We are a walking testimony to our thoughts. Why would you not want to make this shell that carries all of you look the best it can, Or make the changes needed to live as you want.
The largest thing to remember is to allow people speak about their hopes, about their dreams about their wants. At the end of that whether you agree of not.
They will still walk away with what they brought.
What right does anyone have to berate, judge, challenge any of that! If you are an actual part of someones life, then you support whatever, wherever they may go.
Lets be clear. "Do you want someone telling you how to be, who you should be. who you should love.
You answered this question while you read it.
What was that? "No".
You said "No".
Good!!
My personal and complete agenda about this very blog is to inspire, to motivate, to maybe open you up to a simple truth.
The universe loves you.
Love it back and watch the world line up closer to how you see yourself.
Its Ok to think you are all that.
Its Ok to own who you are.
Its Ok to want something better.
If you don't think, know or want something bigger than how the hell is someone going buy what you are selling?
You are selling you.
Take care of the package, the vessel, the mind, the gifts you are given. We all carry the same gift but it's how we see the bigness of it all as to how it tells us who we are as a person.
You really do have to love yourself before someone will love you back. I am talking about a true love.
Let me just throw something else out here as well. There is no manual, no "Love for Dummies" how to book.
It is personal for everyone.
One of the most freeing thoughts I have is that I have to let people love me as they know how. Whether they love others along the way, whether they don't reciprocate as to how you wanted it to happen.
Let them love the best they know how.
There does not need to he a large drama if they are not all about you 24/7.
How stagnating is that.
"You have to let your birds fly free if you want them to come back to me".
I have borrowed that line all my life. My experience is that you are not the only one that sees that beautiful, glorious person. They made you look. Its just how it is. How you handle the look is up to you.
This is about you. If it is not working, then run, run like the wind and look for what you want to see.
See yourself!!
Acknowledge your gifts! If you are sensitive to so much in the world, that that in itself Is your heart working on a higher level.
Yes, sometimes the gifts we have are bigger than life . Some of us spend a life time understanding them.
In the end, its all about you anyway. Its about me. So get out there and live it for you for me.
I am watching.
Live-Live-Live. Cheers!!
Lets end on a happy!!!